So yesterday i was thinking while laying on my bed about to go to sleep, basically a lot was going through my mind, nothing happened, but i just started to think and BEHOLD, chinny started talking to herself, and crying, and talking, and crying...nywayz...moving on..
Nywayz..so what was i so pissed off about..basically i have come to realize that people like to judge other people...forgive me if i start to curse..(but I'm pretty damn pissed off about this issue)..moving on..what makes people judge other people...actually no..let me put it this way...who the f***k do you think you are to judge other people? No really who are you?
What makes you better than the other person being judged? This is the way i look at it. Everybody makes mistakes, whether big or small, nobody can come out today and tell me that they are "good/right" like "perfectly right" in every sense of "right" Impossible, I'm sorry to break your f***ing damn bubble. People come out and say S**t about other people, and if you look....if you just take a small tiny look at this persons life, you start to wonder.."hmmm now why the hell did this person just judge me, when his/her life is so damn imperfect"
Don't get me wrong, by all means I AM NO SAINT, i do the same thing too, judge other people, when my life really is not perfect. I am not better than the person i am judging. So who gives me the right to judge other people? You know what i think, i think human beings judge other people to make their self look better. Yes!..that is it...(OK hold on..let me just think..and breathe and think)..OK moving on.. let me back that previous statement up,(clarify the meaning) for instance a girl has slept with a number of guys, not that many, but yeah whatever, and then some other girl comes up, and is like "so what have you done, you need to be careful, somebody said this about you, your so bla bla you know i never..bladibladibladibladibla...did bladibladibladibla)..nywayz ermmm..hold up!...wait you never waat!!...hold on..please give me a bloody damn break!..."wasn't it you that did that..and that..and this..and that, i mean who the hell are you nywayz to judge me" I mean people this is how i feel, if you are going to open your mouth and judge other people..please make sure your life is perfect because if it isn't then you DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO JUDGE OTHER PEOPLE.
Just because you went to a proper school, and your parents are filthy rich, and you leave in this massive mansion, and you come from this huge big family of rich people, and you drive this, and you drive that, and your father is the president, or the minister, you've slept with 2-3 guys or whatever the hell we think we are..blue blood, and the rest of that ish...DOES NOT MAKE YOU A BETTER PERSON than the one with a beetle, small family, slept with older men for money, red blood, father is the gate man, mum, the cleaner....OMG!! i am tired of writing. But you guys know exactly what i mean by what i am saying.
"she doesn't have a good pedigree" "my pedigree is better that his pedigree" "she/he doesn't carry his/ herself well" "she is loose" "she is a slut" "her mum slept with this other persons dad" "the dad cheats, he is a looser" " why the hell is she trying to start a magazine when she studied biochemistry, i mean wasting her life" "she is too nice" "she is soo fat" "she is dumb" "her pedigree is not that good" "he comes from a broken up family" these are a few jargon's people judge other people about...i mean really people....what the hell is that...what makes someone who gossips everyday about other people, masturbates everyday, has slept with one guy but OK yeah the person is smart, and very responsible..better than someone who is not that smart, very lazy, never gossips, has slept with 8guys, is extremely nice, and not too responsible...you might think huh? what is this chinny on about..chill! i am getting to my point..basically i guess what i am trying to say is that these two people have good and bad traits, and neither of them should judge their selves, because they both have things they need to work on, like one needs to become more responsible, the other needs to stop masturbating everyday(i mean what is that), the other one needs to chill on the number of guys she has slept with...but all in all instead of judging one another, we can help one another. There is a difference between calling someone and saying to the person i am not perfect at all, neither am i better than you, but i think we both have things we need to change, for example you could try to not give every guy your number, they will respect you more, rather than OMG! i can't believe you gave all those guys your number, your such a slut, blaldibladibla.
I mean every time i hear people talking about, what they think about this person, or what this person has done, you know, and I'm smiling inside me, and I'm like wow!..SEE WHO IS TALKING, you know, the person is not any better than the "slut" or the "lesbian" that they are judging. You know it really makes me angry, i feel like people judge other people, maybe to feel better. Maybe if you judge somebody for sleeping around, that might make you feel better for sleeping around too. You just want to know that you are not the only person doing this particular thing that is more or less "bad"
And again, just because you know what this one person does, does not mean you are better than the other person, it simply means YOU HAVE NOT BEEN CAUGHT! some people are lucky enough or maybe smart enough to do their stuff on the low, however some people do it openly, and some people are just not lucky, everybody seems to know their jist, but that's OK, if people want to continue judging you, I SAY LET THEM, but trust me when i say that the "judge" is not any better than you are darling, the only thing is nobody knows about them, so don't feel bad, somebody knows about them, just not you, so be happy, and don't cry when you hear good for nothing people talk about you or judge you like you are the "bad person" cause really they are most likely to be as bad or even worse.
The truth is bitter, nobody likes to hear it, but this is it in a plate(topped up with some stir fry chicken!.lol)...eat it, digest it and enjoy...peace out!! (you can buy the mineral yourself..lol..just had to say that)
4 comments:
Hey its bin a while.......and i totally feel u on this.......ovay west put up a similar post and i'm just gonna repeat what i said there...every human being tends to be judgmental...however it is in nobody's place to condemn other pple,its somewhere in the bible that"let he who is without sin cast the first stone".U already sed it all,i judge pple too i look down on people that have done certain questionable acts and i feel i am better than them but then who am i to judge other pple,i have my own faults too,its a bad habit im tyrin 2 stop and i hope i get to taht stage in my life where i'm able to give pple a chance without judging them first
The beautiful thing is NO-ONE is perfect! Not even one! We are all imperfect. We all have pre-judgments about people but some folks just go to the extreme with theirs. It is very hard to comprehend.
Nothing done on the low stays there. it always comes to light! I laugh when people think messing about on the low low is the right thing to do.
Am with you on this topic, feel free to say anything on this blog, it's your blog but I know that feeling when others think "Money" make them better than others...hate when people judge me, my papa is not a presido or minister or born filthy rich...just living my life....Ignore this fellas my sister, they SUCK and are plain ignorant!!!
I seeee your point . BUT the truth is "judgeing is the human way" , it ain't right but people do it everyday....it is that "better them than me" phenomenon...like watching bad AI auditions, and saying...am glad am not them. Unfortuntly alot of institutions encourage that judgin whether implicitly or otherwise. It is the comparison thing, people won't tire of it. The holy books tell u not to judge right, but yet manages to offer u a comparitive look outward toward another person's life. As long as their are human beings and things to compare, the judging will never end. I came up on humankind along time ago, at some point i realized that no matter what ppl are going to judge you, but at the end of the day, they are not paying your school feels or rent, so fashi them. even if they were, no one's opinions should matter more than your own.Even if they were perfect...SO BLOODY WHAT? I refuse to let someone impose their insecurities on me and to do that u have got to stop comparing yourself and just let yourself B.
at the end of the day, it is the way u see yourself that matters,everyone else can kick rocks. the way i see it, if i don't come and tell u how to live your life, then neither should u do it to me!!
with that said... Be whomever you want, Be you, Be Glorious whoever don't like it can go stand infront of the interstate n cry about it.lol
p.s thanks for ur sweet comments love, u r lovely!! but alas am more of a customizer than a designer.lol. i have more fun styling than sewing actually...call me lazy.lol BUt the show u alluded too sounds like FUN! keep me posted on how it goes.
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