so i have a few questions i need to ask, a few things that i am still trying to understand when it comes to men!
What does it mean to "take it slow"
how much i detest "taking it slow"...it could mean different things depending on the situation. It could mean i do not like you that much..it could mean i am attracted to you, but wont go out with you..it could mean you are not bad, but i am still asking questions...it could just be a nicer way to say..ermmm i do not think it is going to work...which is it?....
Then again when i think about it...like really think about it....i feel like "taking it slow" kind of makes sense..because when you meet someone, you do not want to rush things(something i tend to do), you want to kind of take it slow..get to know the person for about a few months, and then i guess after about 2 3 months you should know the person enough to want to either date her or x her....
I was watching the Tyra banks show the other day, and i believe there was a guest there.(i forget his name)...nywayz he said something like if after three months or 3 to 6 months..the dude you are talking to quote on quote does not want it to be official..then x him cause he def is just not that into you...nywayz (fingers crosses..he is that into me..lol)
How long should one wait before they finally score with a guy(score?)..lol..u know what i mean
ermm..well most people say wait for like three months...some say 6 months..others say a year..some say when he puts a ring on it...some just plainly say never until you are married. (even if it takes 10 years mind you..in those ten years..dude is probably hitting the sack with some b**ch)..heheh..mind my word*..nywayz..moving on..so say wait till you know he will marry you..but ermmm..i say it..the thing is though most people say..what about acting on what you say?...hmmmm...what do you think?? How long should one wait and why?
Oh my mum, and i where having this convo the other day, and she told me to wait...till your married, at least till i we are engaged...lol....and then we talked about someone who this dude slept with..and after sleeping with her...he didn't want anymore...(she slept with him on the first date..mind you at first the guy adored this girl..until she slept with him)..i mean guys are just mean..really they are..moving on
Why are some guys so God damn complicated?
because they just are.....any other reasons??
Why do girls tend to like the bad guys rather than the good guys?
I mean, what does bad guy and good guy mean anyway?...I just want a guy that is in the middle.....(lol..i keep saying that middle ish thing)..nywayz...i need a guy that is caring but not always asking me every second "are you OK?"..ermmm babe i just told you i am fine a few seconds ago......."honey are you sure you are OK".."no response"(at this time i am fed up)..moving on...lol....i need a guy that loves me..and i love him back..just as much..my sister keeps saying 'The guy needs to like you more than you like him"..but errmm..i think i would rather i liked the guy as much as he liked me...i don't know..what do you think?...i need a guy that is confident(not arrogant)..but confident....not a guy who is a sisi...i need a guy to walk into an occasion with and everybody notices him.....even if he has nothing...a guy that people see and respect even before having a conversation with them..a guy that knows what he wants in life..cause i think i know what i want...a guy that understands that i am pushing him hard cause i want him to be successful in life....ok...i am going to stop because i am not telling you about what kind of guy i like..(that is for another post..soon come soon come)....I just want a God fearing..loving caring....cute...tall..dark..handsome..luscious lips..nice ears..Morris chestnut..kind of guy...there i said it....moving on...
Why do guys prefer girls with big butts...what about boobs?(double D's..and gs....)..lol
ermmm..cant answer this questions...If i where a guy maybe i would be able to, but i am not...so...moving one..before i pass on this let me just say that my husband better like double D's..cause ermmm..ahem*..thats what i have got....i am not about to have any butt implant...oh good news for girls who are butt less(that sounds mean)..i know.ok...flat buts..i don't know...nyways on the Tyra banks show the other day(yeah i watch that show everyday...even though she annoys me..but that for another post)....nywayz...a guest on the show..said that to get a rounded butt....you could do squats with a weight......Hopefully that works..moving on..
more to come....i am tired
mwah!!
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1.taking it slow...he's just not that into you!
2.save ur "cookies" till marriage!
3.guys are easy is they are into you...otherwise, he's just not that into you!
4.girls like bad guys cos they like pain!
5.solution: BUTT PADS!
haha...kem kem....i get u...
no1. taking it slow..hes not just that into u...hmmmm...
no4. ...but y?
no5. butt pads...ermmm
About taking it slow, what if that comes from the girl and she suddenly wants to take things slow, does it mean she is still interested and wants to get her head sorted or does it mean she has found someone else and needs to decide who to go with? Should the dude agree to take it slow as well? wouldnt taking it slow kill some of the fire or cause a gulf to grow inbetween?
It would be nice to wait until marriage before sex, however in this day and age, it would be impossible for one to take a stand on the issue, i feel that it all depends on the person you are with. Personally, I advocate leaving it as late as possible if its with someone you really forsee a future with.
about boobage and ass, a nice combo of the two never hurt nobody...however, it is always heartwarming and crotch tightening to see one's other half in a nice outfit that flaunts her boobage. imagine having day dreams of her wearing your best teeshirt with her boobage unfettered underneath....oh my who wouldnt wanna run home to her..!!!!!!!!!;-)
@anon..i can really say what it means for the girl..it could mean many things also depending on the situation, as for if the dud should agree to take it slow...ermmm..it is his own descision..i guess if he likes her..why not...but if he thinks it is a waste of time..then x the babe abi?....i don't know..really depends on the person as i already said.
ok aiting till marriage...everybody keeps saying that..can you guys actually abstain at this day and age? is the question at hand..it is def the best option though.
boobage..hmmm..i think i know who this is....u have casted urself..
of course you might like to think you know who this is...!...and i am sure you might be right!...
but am right about the boobage thing no? and we seem to concur on the sex before marriage issue.....
and about the waiting...i can see clearly now...!
about waiting?? oya..lets take this convo private o..tanx..lol
Quite a question! To me taking it slow means not rushing into some tings. X should be reserved after marriage. To me its a priced gift i will give to my wife on our honeymoon. That is me, if you dont like it then hit the road!
Takin it slow equals hez jst nt dat in2 u lyk kemberly sed
nd as 4 gals lykin bad boiz its just d thrill of knowin dat wot ur doin is dangerous...it kips u wantin mre of d bad boi
Boobs vs ass.... lyk my latest post says,dat wld always remain a controvesy
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